Losing someone that means a lot to us is something we always dreaded, but there comes a time when we should let them go and those memories no matter how hard it is.
We tend to stay on the safe side and run away from risks, thinking that it would be the best way to avoid it.
At first, it may seem to be the best decision but in the end, based on my experience, it will just result in gaining nothing and losing more than what you have expected(love for oneself).
Taking risk is a bargain; we have to lose and sacrifice something that happens to be important to our life in order to gain something better.
For about a year, loss is something that I had. But that was before; when I still thought that I already had everything. I just realized how wrong I was when I choose what is right for me. I chose to stay for a while, thought that it would be the best way to save everything and to stop from being hurt and unrespected.
As days, weeks, months and so on passed by, I thought that everything was going the way it was right. But c’mon I was brought to the fact that the thing I thought worth saving was ruining everything fast as in all.
I tried my best to save it but I realized that there were certain things in life that couldn’t change(they need it the most). I had to accept the reality that letting go and moving on were the best things that I could do. Regret was all that I could feel.
It is not loss that makes one miserable. It is the person who’s involve and experiences it. If one chooses to stay and dwell, he/she will never find what’s really meant for them. But if he/she who has lost something accepts the challenge to continue despite the experience, soon something better is coming.
After all that I’ve been through, I realized what loss brought me. It gives me the best I have today(my son and of course my family’s and bestfriends). The Big Bag that happens to me once again gave me strength and more inspiration to overcome the challenges passing through in my life.
Remember:
Some points of our lives, we have to lose something to be able to gain something more better and worth it. And nothing can compare to a child’s love. …
:* kisses
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